Jeep I change my advice from my thread for you. Painter's is right. Georgia Bulldogs advice is very good.
You can't fix her. Take care of yourself and your children. Play your cards close to the vest and present it all to the judge. I would continue to gather evidence to support your case.
My wife had a EA/PA and I tried to put it behind me but it popped back into my mind when circumstance reminded me of it. I trusted her again but I never forget. Be strong