Ok, I gotta stop watching NCIS.... my first thought was she's poisoning him and needs to get the paperwork in place before he kicks the bucket
OK, kml, you made me laugh with this one.
I thank y'all for the information you provided on pensions. My father recently died and he worked for over 20 years at a Fortune 500 company, and he set up his pension where my Mom only got 50% of his pension amount. And she really needed it! (being a classic homemaker for all of her life).
So yes, it all depends on how om sets up his pension.
W told me that om went to the hospital last week b/c he was "peeing blood". Yuck, tmi. Now my 2 minute Google search makes me an expert, and peeing blood is generally not that big of a deal.
So I continue to believe that om will likely outlive me.