Yes you are right that was a lot of mind reading and speculating as I was trying to answer OTW question of why I am so hung up on this wedding.
From his perspective it because I am worried about OM and W moving on.
What ever the reason I am her to save the MR. I am doing that because for my kids they deserve to have both parents together. I chose to stick by my decision to marry this woman. And because I think the problems we have fixable. And lastly is because I do love my W. The mind says one thing and heart says another right now.
As the time goes on I am less attached. My emotions are not running away like they used to. I feel more OK. I realize what is happening and I know I will be ok. A big part of that is knowing that I have a place to live to call my new home.
Also a big part of that is this forum. So thank you to all that have helped me.
I did not know that equation, googled it and it means Some Will Some Wont so what - Next.
Me late 30's W mid 30's T 15, M 10 S4, S7 ILYBNILWY June 2015 In house S July 2015 W rings off Oct 2015 My ring off Feb 2015 Separate houses June 2016