Waw, she is in love, need advice/support

[Bear007]

In last year since I enrolled in gym I lost 10 kg (20 pounds) and also got some muscle (so fat loss is even greater)

She also lost over 35 kg of fat, and now she is almost lean.

Now, we are talking about 2 different lifestyles - I am working 8+hours every day and commuting 2x50 minutes every day, so my workouts are in 6 in the morning, pure will power.

She has whole day to herself, so her lifestyle includes 6 training sessions a week with group coach. Guided training (by my experience) is far better option since it produces better results and it is easier in group.
Also when she has whole day for herself she easily manages to feed perfectly to suit her diet. She has time to weight all ingredients, and log it into food journal - so, losing lot of time on that also.

So, yesterday I was passing by her after showering and she looks at me with despise and says - you have been training for a whole year, and it does not show - why are you wasting money?
I did not even want to start, I know that I did a good, could have done better, but what is life without some chocolate or wine? I worked out regularly, not a week without 2-4 sessions...

I managed to stay in control and not to rant in front of her.
Almost got the 'Really?' look

Not happy, but she will have a rude awakening when/if she finds a job. And of course, she will stay unhappy (her choice) until she finds a job.