Originally Posted By: Jeep74
Thank you, melo.

Maybe you are right. I just don't know anymore. I'm contemplating reporting everything to her command. There is suspicion of inappropriate contact with enlisted, too. I'm also contemplating telling her family. I'm sick of her spinning things making me look like the bad guy and having them question my parenting.


I wouldn't tell her family unless they ask.

It does concern me that she sent pictures of your children to a man - is this the same one you describe when you said she seeks out the pattern from her childhood? I would be very protective of those children if that guy is abusive...

If you know she has an A with someone she's not supposed to fraternize with, as you supposed to report it?


M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17