Detaching, I'm learning, is so very easy to talk about, but the reality is that it's extremely difficult, and takes time. It's for our own protection, but we're not at all accustomed to having to detach from the very same person we've spent so many years attaching ourselves to. Intellectually it makes sense, but emotionally... not so much.
I very much agree with this Phoebe. This is what i must do to get me through this mess.
Originally Posted By: TimR
OM2's are just that, substitutes for what WW really want or time fillers because they do not know what they really want.
S29 told me that her FB said in a relationship so i'm guessing it's what she wants.
Originally Posted By: TimR
Any way my point being, seems OMs are usually a downgrade or in my WW's case slumming it. And while OM2 is slightly better (employed) I think not really anywhere near what she had. But that is their problem and not ours.
Well brother i happen to know that these OM's are never better than any of us because after all they are praying on married woman. I like to call them maggots.
Like i said it's full D ahead. She wanted it to begin with, and i filed when i found out about the 2nd OM. I don't really know what's going to happen in the long run because i still do love my W but.....
