I will also add to some of the things that were discusseed. A few of the convo's she would cry the entire time, admitting how bad of choices she has made over the last year of her life and how bad those decisions affected many people. Realized there is lots of work for her to do on herself and the relationships with friends and family she had burned bridges with. I was seeing action to back the words up at the time but now I'm not sure if she continued working on hose things or not? I do know that for the first time in a long time, she has been picking S4 up at my parents house. Which is a HUGE hurdle for her to even be within 100 ft of my mom. From what my mom says she has been very pleasant every time.

Fingers crossed for continued progress while trying to keep any expectations low-non existant


Me 34, XF 27
Many years together
Son 4
Engaged
Not engaged
Many false starts by XF
7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life
2/17 girlfriend moves in my home