niryANa

[roist]

Thanks for reflecting on my words. Without judgement I thought that was what you would decide. Viewing the age of your kids I am sure they will perceive if their is OM sooner or later. The truth usually comes to the surface eventually.

Now that you have chosen your path, down to practicalities.What is her plan after kids informed? How long more do ye need to share the same roof?

Speaking of roofs, get the stuff needed and fix the roof/ceiling in the garage. With your son. Even if ye sell that should be done. Then work on his car with him. Your wife's recent decision changes nothing about this so why let it affect it?

I imagine that the more money ye get for the house the better, so don't put off other jobs because you don't feel like it. Snap out of that thinking. Unless you want the house for now. Then a lower value suits you!

If you can really get passed your feelings of anxiety, resentmentaand anger over the recent developments and the impending business trip, impressive stuff. I worry that it could eat away at you. You know best. Maybe read/listen to the stuff on the excel website about betrayal/anxiety.

Mut' you have a clean slate. What are you going to do with it. Your future is yours to build/create. Make it a good one.

Can you get away for the weekend?

I'll finish on a delicate question. Have you had any urges to drink because of what you are going through?