Sorry for where you are currently. However, when the shock and haze lifts you will see things much more clearly. OM2's are just that, substitutes for what WW really want or time fillers because they do not know what they really want.
Counselor said something really odd, which is in some books too. A woman's chances of meeting a good guy post D is very, very, slim. While a man's chance is higher. He explained the statistics and variables but I have a reason I have my profession, because I do not get math.
Any way my point being, seems OMs are usually a downgrade or in my WW's case slumming it. And while OM2 is slightly better (employed) I think not really anywhere near what she had. But that is their problem and not ours.
I am hoping the best for you. I agree I do not think I could ever work back with WW. As it stands I would not want to even try.
Me 41 W 33 M 2013 Suspect A 11/15 Confirm A 1/16 She moved out 2/14/16 Stepson 13 Stepson 16