Tell her sister, mother and father? Where does this get me?
I am in this same boat. I wonder if I should tell my in-laws. Word has gotten back to me that my W is spreading pretty bad stuff to her family about me and my parenting ability. I am very close with my father in law and have gotten the down-low. I have the proof - all I have to do is hit send. She has made herself out to be an angel. But, as I said in my thread, she has so many issues that I - and others as our MC (now my IC) believe that she is two different people in one.
Do I? Or don't I?
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.