He also does not like to make decisions (he would rather have someone else make a decision so he can pass the blame if need be) so I think when I "decided" to try and work things out with him he just floated along and hoped for the best. But, as you said, you and I worked on our marriages and worked on ourselves through this time period. Our H's did nothing constructive...and so we are both right back where we started (just a little more frustrated and bitter because of it!).
smh,
Can you please expand on this. I feel my WAW thinks the same of me. I am an easy going guy and let her make all the decisions. I am sure she finds that unattractive now, she actually told me that today, but based on my situation I cannot trust what she says and does anymore and we are going through a D.
What would be a 180 that would help you respect your H more?
I don't blame people for their decisions, but I understand why my W left me now. I recognize how I did not contribute to my M, but with 5 small boys, I thought I was doing the right thing and she had options to get help when we were together, she just chose not to, but she will not admit that.
H-46 XW-38 T-7 M-6 S-9,8,8,6,4 S 11/30/15, I filed 12/8/15 EA 2/1/16 D dismissed 3/24/16 PA 3/18/16 confirmed 4/22/16 XW files for D 4/1/16 - D final 11/17/16 Finally moving forward...
