Starting to do things right?

[PacLove]

Thanks - yeah I'm avoiding the begging, pursuing - haven't done any of that at all. Boundaries are another matter however that I'm struggling with... I'm trying to be kind yet firm.

Last night I was all but convinced she was going to spend the night at OM near the city as she had to be there early for work... however when D called to say good night she asked if she can come by and kiss D goodnight, I allowed it to which she then later asked if she can crash at home as she had to get up early and take the train in the city and our place is closer to the train station then her temporary accommodation.

I reluctantly agreed as I'd much rather know she's at home vs. potentially at OM's place. I think that was her original plan based on what she had packed in her bag, but time of month + work late probably dissuaded her from it.

She was really stressed staying at home - barely slept. Clearly her mind is foggy.