I know what you mean. I am losing hope with each passing day as I learn of more folks and more things that my WAW is shareing about our sitch with. I also know that what she is sharing is not true except in her perception of the events. I feel as if she is burning all the bridges of hope that we need to be able to cross in order to work things out. My heart breaks as I see the effect it is already having on both of my daughters. Because she does it in front of them with no regard to what they feel and know to be true. My instinct is to call her out and try to stop it, but I know that will only make it worse. I am just praying my heart out, asking that I can have the strength to forgive and act with compassion.
We are in a challenging situation and I place my trust in God that he can be with us and our families at this time.
Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine