Chatting with the world about things when in an emotional unstable place is not good for anyone, but all we can do is focus on ourselves, and our behavior in these moments.
Thank you for your kind words SadHub. I agree completely that talking about our issues with the world when in an unstable place is not a good idea. This thought is what has stopped me from talking to "our" friends about the situation. I am trying to rise above and I do not want to get into a "he said, she said" situation with people close to us...especially as I am hopping to work through this with H. Maybe it is not my problem to be concerned about how he looks to people, but I honestly believe that a lot of what he says and does is ruled by depression,hormones, and emotion and I don't want our family and friends to look badly on him while he is going through this. It should not be my problem but I can't help but think of the future consequences to our relationships with people if we manage to work things out.
