Ok so it seems to me the major reason is scared of another man or her moving on. Yes that [censored]. I have same fears.

I was going to say if it wasn't that and really about the being close to family and wanting to be there then tell her you would like to go.

But if MIL is saying these things to wife then I don't see the family being that close anymore.

I'm sorry you are having it rough.

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15