Hey 1313, it has been awhile... So WW and OM are no longer a couple?? I know the temptation to reach out and say 'hey I am still here...' is strong when you find this out. I had the same instincts as well, but I do not know that it would help. Keep in mind while OM may be gone, the anger is still there. Heck who knows she may even blame you for her failed relationship. Before you decide to or not to, see what others think. I can't really advise on this since I could possibly be the worst DBer in history. btw that is not a oh have pity on me, because I am happy and I have a clean conscience about my sitch. I took the high road and while I did not hold on an exceptional amount of time, I did what I could. After I started coming out of my shock and haze, I just realized it would be self destructive to return to that situation, so I decided to move on. Now I am healthy... mentally, physically, emotionally, and spiritually. Something I have not been for years! I guess in retrospect I should thank WW for leaving, cause I do not know that I ever would have and rather would have suffered in silence for God knows how long.
Me 41 W 33 M 2013 Suspect A 11/15 Confirm A 1/16 She moved out 2/14/16 Stepson 13 Stepson 16