Don't be a jerk about it. Don't give a sarcastic answer. Oh, and don't make up some flimsy excuse as to why you can't help. Let her know upfront that under the circumstances, you will not be available. The is a fact of life that she needs to see right now.
If she gets mad, don't worry about it. All WW's get mad when they can't manipulate the LBH.
Thanks Sandi, I did as advised and sure enough got a somewhat annoyed sounding email back a bit later in the day. This included telling me to scan invoices that she is half responsible for by the end of the day. She also requested my travel dates next month so she could drive me and the kids to the airport (and have the car for a week). Again I haven't responded as yet. I have no plans to have her take us to the airport, I will just park the car for the week. For the invoices, I certainly wasn't going to do them tonight or tomorrow as I have the kids and not really sure I should at all but am open to opinions..
A friend of mine also called it that W would get annoyed if I said no to her as she called me a slave in my W's life.
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