Let me clear up what I just posted lol.

After the first paragraph I forgot to say "My W decided she was going to tell our daughter with involving me or telling me"...

M:13 years
Known her for 30 years!
Me: 40
W: 38
Kids: 17, 11, 7, 7
BD: 02/07/2016
Found EA: 3/22/2016
Told of 2 PA's: 4/8/16
Got Papers: 6/15/16