OM does not have a family. At least not wife, ex wife or kids that I've found. He has family here in my state but he is currently living in another state. I know he is coming here this summer from what I've sen but I'm not sure if its a permanent move or visit. I've have had advice to "out" him but I haven't decided if thats a good move or not yet.
Trumpet, as you know, acting as if I'm over her and telling her that as well is a scary decision to make!
I'm trying to stall on her wanting to tell the kids. I thing thats a big one for her. Once she goes down that route the rest is easier (in her head). She has been dreading telling the kids from what I've overheard. I mentioned she should start the other processes if she needs to hoping to delay telling the kids. She also mentioned sleeping on the couch and getting up before them to hide it is tough on her lol. Definitely not worried about that!
I appreciate the reassurance that this is a long term battle and not a day to day one
M:13 years Known her for 30 years! Me: 40 W: 38 Kids: 17, 11, 7, 7 BD: 02/07/2016 Found EA: 3/22/2016 Told of 2 PA's: 4/8/16 Got Papers: 6/15/16
