Patience. You're in for the long haul here. Detach. Don't make the same mistakes we've all made! Be kind, validate, but keep your boundaries! Not begging or pursuing.
Good luck!


11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker
Reconciling since late April 2016
Don't give up until it's time, then move on
Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat