I would make your travel plans, let her know you are going and say she's welcome to join you. And be quite prepared for her to decline. And if she does, just pleasantly say 'no problem' and go about your day.
The rest of the post sounds good and I'm pleased you are making some progress - keep up the good work my friend.
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T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
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