At the moment I'm still in DB mode. And I agree 100% she is laying blame on me. She does that every chance she gets to defend her actions.
Because this OM was someone she knew from her childhood and reconnected with at some point she defends trying to stay in contact with him because of that. I pointed out he has crossed boundaries and she doesn't see it or doesn't want to. The guy commented on a picture of her on our Anniversary weekend getaway we did this past August saying, Your such a beautiful woman. I mean come on! Duh he's been trying to persuade you for years! Blame it on the fog I guess
M:13 years Known her for 30 years! Me: 40 W: 38 Kids: 17, 11, 7, 7 BD: 02/07/2016 Found EA: 3/22/2016 Told of 2 PA's: 4/8/16 Got Papers: 6/15/16