W used to act like nothing was happening at times with me as well. I remember there would be times she would talk in future tense like next year this or ask my opinion on lamps for rooms. I was baffled.

Take in all info at lawyer and don't get emotionally involved in decisions.

I know this wedding is a big thing to you. Can you honestly answer why? Is it because you will miss the family or are you worried it signifies things are done? She will be seen without you? Or are you worried she will be looking to spend time with someone else there?

Once
We get this answered we can go further.

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15