I think technically he can do has he wants during his time. BUTiif it is not a legal agreement in your position I would say it is not ideal and he can have her next week if he can organize his time to mind her.
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together
