But my short-term goal is to try and bring my WW back from this craziness and face her reality. I can't see past today right now, so don't have a long-term goal.
Think about golfing. Lets say you are trying to sink a 50 foot putt.
You aim for the hole, but youre only really looking at the spot in front of the ball that will then go in to the hole. So you know your 50 foot target and you know the 5 foot direction you want to go that you think is the best way to get you there.
If you only look 5 feet in front of you, how do you know that you are aiming at the hole 50 feet away?
But the part you are leaving out is counter intuitive so try putting away from the hole!
