So I'm really trying to figure out the way to proceed. I've gone back to acting like nothing is bothering me around her (the best I can). I came home from work yesterday and she was cutting her sisters hair. I acted completely normal, said hi to them and then went about doing my own thing.

After they finished, my W said her sister was taking her out to dinner as a thank you for doing her hair. She was getting her stuff ready by me, saying bye to the kids. She came up to me and got within a few inches of kissing me goodbye (like we would do normally). Then she realized and pulled away laughing. She said of sorry, wow that was weird. We all kind of chuckled about it. Am I looking to far into that? Was that habit or was that a reaction because I was being normal, her walls were down and she was able to just act?


M:13 years
Known her for 30 years!
Me: 40
W: 38
Kids: 17, 11, 7, 7
BD: 02/07/2016
Found EA: 3/22/2016
Told of 2 PA's: 4/8/16
Got Papers: 6/15/16