I've obviously been thinking of nothing else but this since then. What it means to me what she did. If I want to stay in this marriage. If I could stay in this marriage. My initial reaction is to continue to work on my marriage. I'm sure thats a natural instinct.

I have made mistakes in the marriage just like her. To have a tally sheet of who's is worse doesn't make such sense to me.


M:13 years
Known her for 30 years!
Me: 40
W: 38
Kids: 17, 11, 7, 7
BD: 02/07/2016
Found EA: 3/22/2016
Told of 2 PA's: 4/8/16
Got Papers: 6/15/16