Are you going to let her tell your children that you were an ass a long tine ago and now she cannot put up with you anymore? You have accepted that crap long enough. Call a spade a spade. I am not saying to attack W or to act in vengeance.But do not let her pretend this is on you and your faults.
Before you didn't create waves because you believed it was best option to save M. Now you don't want to save M and have another reason to not create waves.
I truly understand your thinking. I thought like that most of my but sometimes you have to stand up regardless of the waves.
Again I say this for you my friend. Life is worth living and being too passive can let life roll over you.
Do what you must Mut', I'll be here for you regardless.
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together