Nice insight darknes, right now I really am not sure. I do not know if I want to be married to her anymore. I love her with all my heart, but at the same time, I know that I am able to let her go, if she really wanted to, or thought that she did.

Is that wrong? Wrong to give up because the other person has? Am i not detaching?

It's the whole, "if you set it free, and it's meant to be, it will return". My mind is in as much of a daze as hers.

But my short-term goal is to try and bring my WW back from this craziness and face her reality. I can't see past today right now, so don't have a long-term goal.

Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.