I see more things now that the fog of hope is dissipating. I gave her the benefit of doubt and don't any more. Confrontation seems like a waste of time. I will work on my evolution so that when the sh!t storm hits the family I can be a calm strong safe place for my kids. I need to be their life line through this life changing event. An event solely, unilaterally of my wife's choosing for the family. I will display kindness and compassion for my wife. It is important for my children to have a loving relationship with her. Throwing gasoline on the fire helps no one.
I live for my children while I evolve to live for myself.
