No Jeep74, I have asked her to respect me and not chat to him in our house, or talk to him at all really. She says that she never chatted to him yesterday and not today.
The words out of her mouth are that "the OP is not a threat" - yeah right. What I am saying, is that until I distance enough for her to pursue me, I am "happy" to have her running into a dead-end. How long it will remain a dead end is another story...
Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.