Everyday i go through a virtuous cycle, which is at least better than a vicious one. I go sleep in peace and I awake (early) with fear, but that dissipates during the day, and with all of your help.
Sandi2 1 - I simply agree with her and say "yes, i see us having that D and i'm letting you go now so that I can deal with it when that day comes". 2 - She has agreed to become transparent. I cannot trust her but I need her to believe that I do. 3 - I've got to prepare myself for when she leaves. My other problem is that I know that I can do better than my current wife. I feel bad to say it, but I have a chance at a second beginning with someone else. However, I will fight for my wife as long as I know that she has not been unfaithful. Once she is, I will sue her and leave her with nothing. 4 - I expect her to be pushed away, but i'm hoping that the psychologist see's the irrationality. I cannot play it nice, that will allow my WW to play nice too. Gotta bring out the big guns and have her face her truth right now. Before he comes to town, hopefully.
Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.
