Sotto, thanks for stopping by and for your feedback. I don’t think any “science experiments” would have any impact on me at this time. I do realize that there is no “big” movements. I also know that my H is a very stubborn man and any decision to reconsider his past decisions would be like pulling teeth, LOL. I am at the point when I’m not really interested putting any big effort into keeping the communication going. I think I would rather wait if something more meaningful comes out of this, and if he would make any more effort on his side. I just don’t want to miss any signs of attempts to connect… Just in case… Knowing him… I don’t think an awakening will mean him coming down to his knees to reconnect. I think it will be careful testing of waters… and then some excuses for his behavior…
But… On the second thought… If he wants something really bad, he can do it! So, I will just keep minding my own business and doing my own stuff…
Sotto, thanks again. Sometimes just a couple of thoughtful words can bring me back to the reality.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state
