I actually thought 'suck' was right, bttrfly.lol. But 'shock' is good too.
Sotto-- Damn, why did I not think of that?? I guess I was rather surprised by it. I kind of did not know what to say. Tho-- "Does your girlfriend know you say these things to me?" came to mind.
I understand what you are saying about the cake eating. I feel totally stuck in the middle-- a place I do NOT want to be. I have to live with him til June, so trying to be civil, but not a doormat; not be too friendly, but not cold and angry (that was one of my 180s) Hey, honestly, I just don't know what I am doing.
TxH-- I thought I did pretty good when he told me he was headed to OWs for weekend.
Btw-- I went to a line dancing class tonite. Boy, was it fun. I laughed and even worked up a little bit of a sweat. Looking forward to going again.
Me 47 H 49 S18 S15 M 21 BD #1 11/09/15 ILYBNILY I believe we are Piecing 1/2/16 Suspect EA/PA? 2/28/16 BD #2 "He tried, but needs passion." 2/28/16 Confirm PA 3/11/16, he's leaving in June H leaves 5/7/16