Sandi,

Can you give some specific detail to explain this:

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The type of changes I have seen work for both the man and his WW's feelings, are the attitude and interrrelationship changes. When the man changes the relationship DYNAMICS. Until he changes that part.........he could kill himself trying to do enough to make up for the past, but it won't affect her.


What things change the MR? What things make a difference?


H:54 W:46 D:11 D:21
M:12 BD:1/15
In-house Separation 2/15
DB started 7/15, W sees consistency 9/15
Dropping the rope and having her leave 2/16, moves 5/16
Reconciliation 1/17
Obviously still struggling