Thank you Sandi2. I want you to know how much I appreciate you advice. I agree with everything you say. My GAL is so non existent. It's been so long I have trouble remembering what I did when I was not married. I spent so much time with my friends who are now married or moved away. My best friend is married and when we are together it's during work hours or social gatherings.
I am 51 now. Things I did when I had a life before marriage don't sit well with me. I frequented a pub just to watch sports or socialize with my friends. I am a social person and I never really did anything on my own. How pathetic is that. Now that hockey season is over for me, I have less to keep me busy. I do work out purely to get in shape. I don't enjoy it. My interests are sports but I would be active with my friends who have given up the sports I still,play.
I don't recall the "no more Mr Nice Guy" section. It's been too long since I have read Divorce Remedy. I have some homework to catch up on. I am not suggesting DB ing is not working. I know I have swayed from the DB methods and it's my fault for not following the guidelines better. I am discouraged as d day is fast approaching. I will read the book once again so that I can focus and up my efforts.
Don't count the days, make the days count. Mohammad Ali
