Having issues in my detaching. Struggling with Facebook. I keep checking to see if/when she changes her Relationship status (still shows we're married), or if she is posting what she is up to, any new friends, pics, etc. Not sure if I should un-friend, or block, or do anything at all. I hate that I still have the desire to do these things. Not much activity for her and she normally posts a lot, so I am assuming she has a privacy setting with me blocked for most of her posts. I am not sure what to do, but I know this is "spying" and causing me issues.
If it is on social media, then I would not place it under spying. However, you see what it does to you to look, right? If you can't handle it, then you need to stay away from it.
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Why do I not get any spew? Why does this bother me? I don't get the chance to understand her frustrations on our R. Someone close mentioned that if she cared she would have emotions but lack of emotions probably means she has moved on. I guess this is mind reading and why would I not assume in her mind right now that she has moved on..She said she wanted a divorce.
If it will make you feel any better, I'll spew on ya!
What do mean you don't get the chance to understand her frustrations? Be thankful. Some of these men would probably like to exchange places. Besides, she was spewing plenty about her frustrations when she wanted money. Honestly, Cube.....you are the first guy I've heard complain about not getting enough spew and not getting to hear the W's frustrations. You need to seriously GAL.
Remember those requested links I went digging around to find for you? How far have you gotten?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
