Collected S to take him home for lunch with his exchange student. He pulled a face and showed me a text from W. She was asking him if she could come around this evening to our house to cook for us and get to know the exchange student. He said no. A friend suggested it was time I told her a few home truths. I don't know how to make the message any clearer after talking to her on Saturday. Any conversation which involves her R, along the lines of until things change we don't want you in our lives, sound a bit like threats to me. I don't know why she still thinks we are a family and nothing has changed when we have only been together for S's birthday and no more in six months. I don't text except for things about S or finance. We have only met twice since January. She doesn't seem to face the consequences of her actions and I don't think it is my role to tell her. Surely she has to realise it for herself or she'll resent me as the messenger?
