He was unhappy? So what did he do to change that? How much happiness did he bring into the R on a daily basis? Was he relying on you to make him happy?
I think happiness comes from the inside, for the most part.
It sounds like his wish and failure to enforce his standards onto you is what made him unhappy.
I think this was actually both of our issues. Right now I am trying to transform all of my negative thinking patterns to positive thinking because I think it is how I can be happy from within. I am trying with meditatio/hypnosis. I will actually see a hypnotist tomorrow. Am still leery of counselors that take insurance.
After kids were born, I went through depression and blamed Unhappiness on husband. I think he was doing that to me before he left.
