Some say don't do it, but why not? If you can separate the act of sex and love making, then why not satisfy that need? I know, thats a hard thing to do because of the situation, but going back through this thread it's obvious that she has no interest in reviving the marriage.
In all seriousness, though. But what you need to remember and focus on is that none of her crap is about you. It's all her. Whether you think she disrespects herself or not really is irrelevant. Their logic is not the same as ours. When they cross that line, there really is no going back.
So, if you think you can hit it without attachment, then why not? at this point, it isn't about saving the marriage because in all honesty that is done anyway.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
