Waw, she is in love, need advice/support

[Bear007]

Game playing continues, thank you sandi2 for input.

I am not mean, and I try to stay calm (and I am calm person by nature), but it is so hard when she provokes all the time.
As for the game playing, question: 'what do you think why I am refusing sex' she answered not with introspection but rather with accusation: 'because you are getting it somewhere else'.
Of course I denied that, but clearly shows her way of thinking.

I am having second thoughts if she really is WW or is she trying to just get away from me. She said repeatedly that she is leaving because she does not love me, that falling in love with OM is what made her realize that she is not in love with me.