Mut' with all emotions and behaviors there is a correct balance.Stsying in one extremity or another is not balanced. Sometimes confrontation is what is best for your family.I speak in general and not about your latest BD.
My R with W is following its path. I won't over analyse that for now BUT I choose to be optimistic. That makes walking the path easier. My W is not pulling further away from me nor is she going further towards anything else. If either of these occurs I will reassess my position. In the meantime I have work to finish on me.
I find it interesting watching the psychology of peoples thinking and interactions. I wish I was observing it with some other couple but hey I am learning from it.
Thanks for dropping by.
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together