Jjb, for Lim's case, I think the situation turned around because the A was exposed and it imploded. It helped that the OM wanted to work things out with his wife.
The fantasy bubble burst.
I don't think it was the filing of D that shook Lim's wife out of her A fog.
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.