Good for you. Glad you are in a better place today. Yes her life is her business. What I said was more about not letting her blame you wrongly if there is a different real reason in her life.

So what is this new relieved Mut going to do? Keep posting I hope.

Best wishes

R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together