OK Sandi2, I finally get it. I never did before, but i get it now.

What i need to be, is the best me and best father. She will need to see if this person can also be the best husband.

But this whole episode changes a person, it makes you weak, weaker than ever before. Perhaps, its really the truth, perhaps I have always been weak and my WW has just shown me to be my true self.

I've always been trying to change her, and forgetting that I need to change myself. It might be too late for her and I to reconcile, but it's never too late to learn.

Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.