New Thread for Help

[CWOL]

A couple weeks ago, WW found and misunderstood an old piece of paper while snooping through my files and thought that I was "spying" but it was from months ago. But I couldn't explain to her because how I learned that was from my surveillance system... So my WW tells her mother that she feels "unsafe" because of the "control" I have over her.

However, things are coming to a head soon and she will probably have to leave as we finalize the separation agreement. My L put ten days after we finalize the agreement. I am thinking all of this is because she wants to rebel against my supposed "control" over her throughout the marriage. A lot of it is in her head, she feels I controlled her spending even though I never even looked at the credit card statements (they were all auto-paid). Early in the marriage I made a few comments when there were large purchases, but I haven't really looked at the spending in the last ten years as she has not been wild with it. So now she wants to be "free" and make her own decisions, which is what she claims.