IMHO this is a situation where you should do what is right by you. Nothing you do should be with her filter for your decisions. Do what is right by you and don't over think every decision you make.
Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine