And it's great to hear you feel yourself not dwelling on the situation often. That's wonderful! In the beginning of all this we're told we've been given the gift of time. But it's so hard to see that post BD. But soon enough it clicks. We have a choice: suffer and become martyrs or pull ourselves up and make something of the time.
Good for you!!!
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced
