Wait...........what?!? What happened to the man yesterday who was saying all that stuff about not letting her back in, and making her grovel? I honestly thought I was on the wrong thread and had to look back over the posts to make sure I was not confused.
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So my wife still TM chats with the OP, in front of me. I really can't deal, but know that i have to.
What do you mean you know you have to deal with her TM with the OM in front of you? No, you don't tolerate that type of disrespect.
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The arousal is innate and she needs to satisfy that sexual attention seeking too. Don't get me wrong, I made sure that I set it up so that I would sleep in the next room.
Well, I'm trying to not get you wrong........but maybe you should draw me a picture. What happened to the man who first came on board.....up till yesterday (according to the computer's date).
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I've just realised that she actually has no control over her life, and never has.
So, who does have control of her? Certainly not you. Maybe you can explain what you mean.
The man is still there, I was testing a few theories to uncover her many faces. This is why i realised that what she was missing was respect.
My WW certainly has control over her life, but without respect for yourself, you lose control of things and never really understand how you got to where you are. Like you say, I need a firm hand, followed by a loving embrace.
Am definitely not going to try and put my foot in it. Lets see what happens tomorrow.
Do you suggest a new post?
I really appreciate your time and focus on my case, and hope i'm not drifting too far off course. As you can see I'm extremely analytical which is not a good when it comes to emotions.
Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.
