I joined W, our kids, and two other families at ESPNZone last night in Times Square for W's birthday (the kids love it). Everything went well, and as expected, while W was not highly intaractive with me she was pleasant. In fact, I shouldprobably try to get as much time as possible with W around non-family friends because these seem like the only times where she acts in soft manner.
On the train ride home, both D's and S leaned on me and hugged me (not W) in their sleepiness. W had to notice, but because friends were there, she couldn't make her usual snide remarks or sneer at me like she would if that occurred alone in our living room. I guess that's a plus for melting the proverbial "chunk of ice" around her heart.
Tonight and tomorrow morning present a real test on any baby steps arising from her "You win" outburst on Monday. An even angrier outburst of frustration from her is not unlikely--and if it does not occur, perhaps she is settling in just a tiny bit. Trust me, I have no expectations, but the angry outbursts can wear a guy out.
